Tuesday, December 23, 2025 – Day 497

Good morning, everyone.
2 days until Christmas. 🎄 No major changes in the feeding tube saga. Outside of Peggy, our care coordinator, I’ve had little sense that anyone truly cares about our situation. I wrote my G.I. doctor, in the morning, expressing my frustration and disappointment with the new feeding tube and received the following response late yesterday afternoon…from one of his registered nurses: _Hi Mr. Snarski, I apologize that this happened.

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Monday, December 22, 2025 – Day 496

Good morning, everyone.
3 days until Christmas. 🎄 Cindy and I want to say thank you to all of you who have been thinking of us this holiday season. You’ve been stepping up in so many ways since this diagnosis, and over the last month you’ve taken your thoughtfulness to the next level. Packages have been appearing at our doorstep so frequently that Bear doesn’t even bark at the delivery people anymore—he just assumes they live here.

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Sunday, December 21, 2025 – Day 495

Good morning, everyone.
Four days until Christmas. 🎄 So… back to my feeding tube exchange on Friday. Turns out it’s a little more involved than swapping out a propane tank at Ace Hardware. Cindy’s sister Barb came along with us to Glenbrook Hospital—partly to support Cindy and partly to help schlep me around. Everything takes more effort these days, especially when winter decides to remind us who’s in charge. We arrived early, and the O.

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Saturday, December 20, 2025 – Day 494

Good morning, everyone.
5 days until Christmas! 🎄 Well, it turns out I had a technical glitch this morning and when I went to paste my story into this blog, I deleted it. No time to start over. Long story short, I have a new feeding tube. I’m going to give it a go this morning and I should get back to regular feeding schedule and move on to other things.

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Friday, December 19, 2025 – Day 493

Good morning, everyone.
6 days until Christmas! 🎄 I’m not exactly sure who to thank for yesterday’s Jevity delivery. A few people stepped in to order formula to help bridge the gap while we wait for our Medicare supplier to deliver just-in-time inventory somewhere between Christmas and New Year’s. So thank you, Kim… Nikki… or whatever helpful elf made it happen. Much appreciated. 🎅🏼 Yesterday was massage day with Ashley from Sullivan Mobile Massage and Spa.

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Thursday, December 18, 2025 – Day 492

Good morning, everyone. One week until Christmas. 🎄 When I was diagnosed with ALS, I did some basic research. I didn’t know much about the disease and had never known anyone who had it. I was aware of the Ice Bucket Challenge—that was about it. My first real exposure came from the movie The Pride of the Yankees, starring Gary Cooper. It’s worth watching if you want to understand Lou Gehrig—the baseball phenom and his unmatched character.

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Wednesday, December 17, 2025 – Day 491

Good morning, everyone.
8 days until Christmas! 🎄 (got the math right today) My sister Maria and her husband Pete stopped by yesterday on their way back from Florida to Minocqua. Somehow, I had it in my head that they were simply driving through the Chicago area. Why else would you stop in Crystal Lake, right? They arrived right at 2:00 p.m., loaded down with packages—including dinner. I mistakenly thought I heard Jordaniancuisine, but it turned out to be Georgian food… a pretty big difference.

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Tuesday, December 16, 2025 – Day 490

Good morning, everyone.
11 days until Christmas. 🎄 Surgery is scheduled for this Friday to replace my feeding tube. It turns out these tubes have a useful life of about six months. I’m right at the edge of that window, which explains why it keeps failing. I just wish the GI specialists had given us a heads-up—we could have replaced it sooner and avoided doing this right before the holidays.

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Monday, December 15, 2025 – Day 489

Good morning, everyone. Happy 67th Birthday, Ric! 🥳🎈👯🍾 This morning got off to a rough start. Had Cindy not gently nudged me awake, I might have slept right through my self-imposed publishing deadline. Yikes. Yesterday, I finished Cry Havoc. It’s a thriller set in Vietnam around the Tet Offensive—when the course of the war shifted decisively in favor of the North Vietnamese (not that the U.S. ever truly stood a chance of winning).

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Sunday, December 14, 2025 – Day 488

Good morning, everyone.
11 days until Christmas. 🎄 Yesterday, Cindy cleared out the furniture from the main floor that would hinder the wheelchair, with some much-needed muscle from Mike H. Where did it all go? The basement…where everything eventually ends up. I’m honestly surprised there was room, although I have no idea what the basement hoarder’s den looks like anymore. I haven’t been down there in nearly a year. No matter.

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Saturday, December 13, 2025 – Day 487

Good morning, everyone.
12 days until Christmas. 🎄 If you’ve been paying close attention to the details of my blog, you may have noticed that I sometimes mix up days of the week and dates… more than I’d like to admit. Like yesterday—when I was convinced it was Friday the 13th.
Wrong!! So anyway… please pay no attention to that man behind the curtain. I also try to recognize birthdays here on the blog, and that’s a little hit-or-miss as well.

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Friday, December 13, 2025 – Day 486

Good morning, everyone.
12 days until Christmas 🎄 Yesterday, the cleanup continued from Tuesday night’s formula debacle. We have a large rug in our bedroom that once lived in my parents’ living room at 1922. Our bedroom was the only place it fit in our townhome—and we figured it would be safe from spills and food. Well… until now. I had a nagging feeling that something was eventually going to go sideways with the feeding pump in our bedroom.

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Thursday, December 11, 2025 – Day 485

Good morning, everyone.
14 days until Christmas! 🎄 Last night’s sleep worked out perfectly. We went to bed a little anxious after the recent feeding-tube “leaking” event—the one that left formula soaking the rug, the floor, and the HVAC system. Honestly, we should’ve called a disaster-recovery team. That stuff dries stickier than Elmer’s glue. This time, though, the pump didn’t finish early. We adjusted the rate downward, and by 4:00 a.

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Wednesday, December 10, 2025 – Day 484

Good morning, everyone. Today’s post is about gratitude… and a gaffe. Yesterday, my triplet brothers, Tom and Tim, stopped by for a visit. As luck would have it, they arrived at the exact same time as Stephanie, my PT. My brothers were looking for things to do, so Cindy put them to work on a handful of small tasks—jobs she would’ve had to tackle later herself. That alone was a gift.

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Tuesday, December 9, 2025 – Day 483

Good morning, everyone. 16 days until Christmas. 🎄 It’s been a week since I started the overnight pump feedings, and so far my body is tolerating it surprisingly well. I’m essentially doing the equivalent of two feedings while I sleep, with a third one midday. It’s much easier to stay compliant with my required nutrition this way instead of trying to carve out three separate times every day. Heck…I never ate three times a day even before ALS…I was a lifelong lunch-skipper.

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Monday, December 8, 2025 – Day 482

Good morning, everyone.
17 days until Christmas. 🎄 Yesterday was a tale of two halves…productive in the morning and puddles in the afternoon. Late morning we had a full-blown Christmas-card brigade assembled: Cindy, Barb, Mark, Geoff, and Kristin all gathered around the table pens and envelops in hand For as long as I can remember, Christmas cards have been my job. Being left-handed, I always avoided smearing ink by running the envelopes through the printer…my clever workaround.

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Sunday, December 7, 2025 – Day 481

Good morning, everyone. Today marks 84 years since the attack on Pearl Harbor, “a date which will live in infamy.” We owe the men and women of this era so very much. Thank you for your service. The downstairs powder room has always been the one space I resisted modifying. Maybe that sounds silly, but holding on to something “normal” has mattered to me. One untouched room felt like a small victory…a way to slow the march of ALS inside our home.

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Saturday, December 6, 2025 – Day 480

Good morning, everyone. Let’s talk red. We had so many holiday traditions over the years../some new, some old, and some fleeting…but what mattered most was that we celebrated them together. For so many years, Christmas at 1922 was the anchor. The siblings who lived outside the Chicago area would pack up their families and stay nearly a week. Going from a household of 10 to an extended family of almost 30 wasn’t just “a little more” chaos…it was exponential chaos.

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Friday, December 5, 2025 – Day 479

Good morning, everyone. My neck has been giving me more and more trouble lately. I’ve tried PT, I’ve tried various neck braces, posture devices, pain-relief gels, Tylenol…basically, if Amazon sells it, I’ve probably ordered it. Nothing has brought real relief, and little by little I’ve found myself folding forward. At this point, when I walk, all I can see is the floor. If I want to know where I’m actually headed, I have to peek over the top of my glasses… and only for a second or two before gravity pulls my big fat head right back down.

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Thursday, December 4, 2025 – Day 478

Good morning, everyone. Let’s not talk about ALS, let’s talk about stockings…not just any stockings, but Christmas stockings. Growing up, my mom, whom I called Sally, hand-knitted every stocking that hung by our fireplace. They were all identical except for the name stitched across the top, and to us, they were perfect. As kids, we had a Christmas Eve ritual. Each child would hang their stocking on the line using a clothespin…one at a time, from oldest to youngest.

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