hursday, October 30, 2025 – Day 443

Good morning, everyone. I’ve been in a bit of a funk since the marathon. That weekend felt like the big climactic event of the year — or maybe the marathon was the dessert and Alex and Nicole’s wedding was the main course. Either way, both moments were huge for me, and when I look at photos and videos, the emotions still wash over me 🄲. Beautiful, overwhelming, and memorable! Lately, I feel like I’m canceling more opportunities than I’m saying yes to.

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Wednesday, October 29, 2025 – Day 442

Good morning, everyone! Happy belated birthday, Lynn M. šŸŽ‰ Lynn is a friend we met through Camp Osoha in Boulder Junction, WI — an all-girls camp our daughters attended for many summers. Each summer session was six weeks long, and the camp was truly something special. Sadly, it closed years ago after a tragic accident, but while it was running it shaped generations of young girls into strong, confident women.

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Tuesday, October 28, 2025 – Day 441

Good morning, friends and family. This ALS progression is really starting to hit hard. No matter what I do, I come out of every activity needing a break. It can be something as simple as brushing my teeth and getting dressed in the morning. Moving from one room to another seems to suck up all the oxygen in the house, and I end up winded, sitting there trying to catch my breath.

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Monday, October 27, 2025 – Day 440

Good morning, everyone. Yesterday was a better day. I’ll admit, I did a little sulking in the morning about missing the Michigan trip. But by the afternoon, the sun was out, and I decided to do the next best thing—get outside and soak up some vitamin D the natural way. I probably should take vitamin D supplements for how little I get outside but honestly, I’m already running a daily pharmaceutical pill dispensary.

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Sunday, October 26, 2025 – Day 439

Good morning, friends and family. Yesterday, I was up and moving right along—getting ready for the road trip to Michigan to see the college crew. Keep in mind, my version of ā€œgetting readyā€ means getting myself cleaned up, dressed, and fed—the bare minimum to be road-trip ready. Cindy, on the other hand, handles everything else: packing, hauling suitcases, and gathering all the ALS gear. So yeah, I’ve got the easy part every time we go somewhere.

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Saturday, October 25, 2025 – Day 438

Good morning! We’re off to Michigan this morning. This two- to three-hour drive will be a good test for my butt and the various cushions we’ve accumulated. I’ve got very little padding left back there, and I’m starting to resemble the Sexton (maternal) side of the family. My aunts and uncles never had much meat on their bones either, so I imagine their backsides were just as sore on long car rides…especially in their later years.

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Friday, October 24, 2025 – Day 437

Good morning, everyone. Last weekend in October—hard to believe we’re already sliding into the holidays. This weekend is a college get-together on the shore of Lake Michigan in Union Pier, Michigan. I’m really looking forward to seeing everyone. The party officially starts today, but we’re waiting until tomorrow to join the group. There’s something about getting together with college friends… it’s like you never left campus. For me, this trip will be a bit more subdued than past reunions.

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Thursday, October 23, 2025 – Day 436

Good morning, and welcome to a new day. Overnight the respirator behaved beautifully…no frightening bursts of air, no near-suffocations, and no gurgling noises. Just a steady, peaceful exchange of air all night. Now I just need to confirm if Cindy agrees with that assessment. I’ve started noticing that my nighttime movement has become very limited. When I wake up, I’m usually in the exact same position I fell asleep in. That’s new for me.

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Wednesday, October 22, 2025 – Day 435

Good morning, all! It’s way too early. The house is chilly, and I’m sitting by the fire wrapped in a quilt. I’m so thankful for these handmade gifts—they really take the edge off cool mornings. It was another restless night with the NIV (non-invasive ventilator). Things started out fine, but around 2:00 a.m. I woke up flat on my back, and the NIV was blasting air like a leaf blower. I felt a rattle in my throat and tried to cough it out—but my cough is already weak and pathetic.

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Tuesday, October 21, 2025 – Day 434

Good morning, all! Yesterday I mentioned Ordinary Grace, the book that showed up in the mail. As it turns out, my cousin Mark already has the same book sitting on his table, waiting to be read. What are the odds we’d pick up the same title at the same time—especially since it’s been out since 2013? I’m looking forward to diving in once I finish one that’s ahead of it on my list: Look Closer by David Ellis, our current college book club pick.

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Monday, October 20, 2025 – Day 433

Good morning. It’s definitely looking like fall outside—cool air, color in the trees, and the sound of leaves crunching under tires. Although, in classic Midwest fashion, our A/C decided to kick on yesterday. Nothing like a blast of cold air to wake you up from a good nap. Only a few day ago, if I didn’t like the temperature in the house, I’d just grab my phone and adjust the thermostat.

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Sunday, October 19, 2025 – Day 432

Good morning, all! I was watching the news and saw a story about a New Jersey high school that canceled its homecoming dance because of low ticket sales. That one made me stop and think. Low ticket sales? Wow. Back in the day, homecoming was a main event. Of course today, with social media and everybody being connected by technology these are very divergent experiences separated by 50 years. I started high school as a pretty shy kid—or at least that’s how I saw it.

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Saturday, October 18, 2025 – Day 431

Good morning, blog readers. As we grow up, we watch people and we learn from them. Kids are like clay—molded by what they see and experience. We pick up good habits and not-so-good ones, and all of it—along with a little luck—helps shape who we become. A Bad Habit Learned Both my parents smoked, and at some point, I decided to sneak a cigarette from one of their packs. I must have been around 12 or 13.

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Friday, October 17, 2025 – Day 430

Good morning, everyone! It’s the end of a quiet week, and yesterday I finally felt recovered from the marathon weekend. It’s was a good feeling to reach the afternoon and not need a nap. Although…I’ll admit I spent most of the morning reading in bed. Sometimes by the time I finish getting ready for the day, I’m already worn out, so I just stay upstairs and read for a couple of hours and recharge.

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Thursday, October 16, 2025 – Day 429

Good morning. Happy Birthday, Mary Ann! šŸŽšŸ„³šŸŽ‰ Looking ahead to next year—the Chicago Marathon is set for October 11, 2026. I can’t believe I’m saying this, but Alex has already reached out to ALS United to lock in a spot. He’s got his sights set on breaking the 4-hour mark, which is a tough goal but absolutely doable. Now’s the time to commit! If you’re even thinking about running, send an email to Sarah Brandt at Sarah@alsunitedchicago.

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Wednesday, October 15, 2025 – Day 428

Good morning everyone. Happy Birthday to my youngest brother, Nick! šŸŽ‰šŸ„³šŸŽšŸ¾ And…Happy Birthday to Trish Z! šŸŽšŸ„³šŸ‘‹šŸ¾ Yesterday I was updating my Facebook page with some photos from the marathon. Between the Andy’s Army shirts and me sitting in a wheelchair, it became pretty clear that something had changed with my health. Within an hour, the questions started coming in—people asking why I was in a wheelchair. When I was diagnosed with ALS on August 13, 2024, it hit Cindy and me like a freight train.

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Tuesday, October 14, 2025 – Day 427

Good morning! We’re back home, and I feel as mentally and physically exhausted as I did after Alex and Nicole’s wedding last month. What a weekend! I owe many people thanks for making this year’s marathon such a huge success. Lis and Steve drove down from Minocqua to pick up Cindy and me in Crystal Lake and bravely took on Chicago traffic. They’re seasoned city drivers—years of experience in D.C. paid off.

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Monday, October 13, 2025 – Day 426

Good morning, fans. It’s the day after the Chicago Marathon, and there’s so much to talk about—yet I hardly know where to begin. A year ago, four runners made a commitment to do something meaningful for me after my ALS diagnosis. That was no small challenge. You don’t just wake up one day and run a marathon—it takes months of training, early mornings, and sheer willpower. Yesterday, on a chilly, cloudless morning, this group lined up at the start—ready to put an exclamation point on their promise and give us all a day to remember.

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Sunday, October 12, 2025 – Day 425

Good morning! It’s race day! The runners are up and on their way to the starting corrals. Now comes the classic marathon morning routine—hurry up and wait—trying to calm the nerves, fight off the chill, and make that final bathroom stop at the last possible moment. I keep thinking about a comment from last night’s ALS United dinner: ā€œYou have the opportunity to run where others cannot, so enjoy yourself out there and take in the whole experience.

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Saturday, October 11, 2025 – Day 424

Good morning, blog readers and marathon participants. One day until the Chicago Marathon!
Fundraising total for Andy’s Army stands at $58,902 — what an incredible achievement for this team. A big thank-you to our four runners — Nikki, Alex, Meghan, and Michael — for their commitment to run, and another heartfelt thank-you to everyone who’s donated to ALS United. How It All Began We were in St. Maarten last December when the kids first came up with the idea of running the Chicago Marathon.

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